apologies... don't come easy out of me...

when i first started working at the new gig... i had a guy approach me...

mind you... he didn't know me from "Eve"... but none the less... he asked me to come to his house for a "party"... i told him send me the info... and if i can make it... i'll let him know...

he indirectly asked me for my number... stating that he wasn't sure if the party was going down or not... and if it was he would call me... i declined in giving him my number... and his response was... "oh... well i'll catch up with you another time..." yeah... seemed shady to me...

so i asked a couple people around the office if the gentlemen had mention something about a "maybe" party to them... everyone looked at me and started laughing...

they were like... that was a "private party" invitation just for you maybe... he's tried that before with someone else in the office...

I WAS HEATED... i basically though he was going to try to get me to come to his house... get me drunk... and try to take advantage of me... (it's happened to a girlfriend of mine before... she got out of there ok... thank God...) but instead of coming to him and stating how i was offended by it... i stated it to others... and that wasn't fair to him...

so today... i had a talk with him... and apologized for how i had treated him... because i didn't give him a chance to tell his side of the story... he had already apologized previously to me about how i took the situation...

but yeah... that whole apology stuff... is hard... but once you make a mince... it feels a lot better...

being upset about silly stuff is kinda wack anyways...

Nola*